Maintaining

I'm pretty proud of myself. I've excercised almost everyday for the past 3 weeks. I've lost about 8 pounds.
I'm getting discouraged though. I am working my butt off (litterally!) and barely seeing any results. I think my previous hypothesis was wrong. I now need to change the way I am eating too. With my new job, I'll actually be able to do so. It's not that my family and I eat terribly, but it obviously isn't as healthy as it could be.
So for the next month or so, I'm going to turn into a rabbit: lettuce, carrots, and water for me. Maybe a few other things.
Another reason I am so discouraged is that I am not seeing the results in myself. My mom says she is starting to see a drastic difference in the shape of my body, and that I am really toning up. I fail to see it though. Everytime I look in the mirror, I still see all the hard work that remains for me. I will NEVER let my children get fat. I swear it. It's just too hard to get rid of it all.
The wedding is like 30something days away, and as it draws nearer I'm feeling the pressure to more and more to look good for it. Working, sleeping, exercising, and eating is the only thing I'm going to be doing for the next few months.
Let's hope a change in my eating habits will bring the results I want to see.
I am NOT in good shape you stupid Wii Fit! I am still fat. Help me get rid of it and stop telling me I am doing great, cause I really don't feel like I am!! But I AM getting there....